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Bringing home a puppy is equal parts adorable and exhausting. You’re excited, you’re tired, and suddenly you’re googling “is this normal” at 2 a.m. while someone chews a table leg.
We brought home our golden retriever, Coconut, at 9 weeks old. I grew up with dogs, but raising a puppy as an adult hits different. You’re the one buying the supplies, setting the routines, cleaning up accidents, and trying to teach “leave it” before they swallow something questionable.

This post is the handy puppy checklist I wish I had before bringing our new best friend home. It’s the stuff we actually used, the things we bought and didn’t need, and the items that made the puppy phase feel more manageable!
How we raised our golden retriever puppy
Before Coconut came home, Tom did what Tom does: he researched everything. He grabbed a Golden Retriever book recommended by a friend, and it became our reference guide for the first few weeks.
That book helped us stay consistent, especially with crate training and potty training. It also kept us from spiraling every time Coconut did a very normal puppy thing. Consistency is a great option if you’re trying to be the best pet parent you can be, especially in those first few weeks with a new furry friend.
Then we bought all the things. Truly, we went overboard.
A few weeks in, it was obvious what mattered and what didn’t. So I pulled together this list by category, with quick notes on why each item earned its spot in our house.
I’ll also share what we did for pet insurance at the end, because that decision saved us a lot of stress.
Must have list for new puppies
Crating and safe spaces
Crate
If you’re crate training, this is non-negotiable. Coconut sleeps in her crate at night, and the door stays open during the day as an option.
Two tips that helped us:
- Feed meals in the crate. It builds a positive association fast and helps your puppy’s crate feel like a calm place.
- Use the divider. Puppies should not have enough space to potty on one side and sleep on the other. Start small, then expand as they grow.
Crate cover or blanket
Covering the crate sides creates a darker, calmer space. We cover everything except the front door, and it’s been a great option for helping Coconut settle.
Crate bed or mat
Inside the crate, we use a simple, basic crate-sized bed. Keep it easy to wash and not overly plush. This also helps with pet safety if accidents happen early on.
Dog bed for the house
All puppies need a spot to land outside the crate. Finding the right dog bed matters more than you’d think. We started with this bed, and Coconut loved burrowing toys into the edges.
Play pen
This was one of our most-used items. We used a playpen when we were cooking, working out, or needed to move through different areas of the house without watching her every second.
What worked for us: a small bed inside, a few toys, and rotating chews.
Food, enrichment, and “keep them busy” items
Kongs
If you only buy one enrichment toy, make it Kongs. We batch-prepped a mix of yogurt, pumpkin, and peanut butter, stuffed them, and froze them.
Stuffing idea:
- Add a layer of the mixture
- Add some kibble
- Top with more mixture
- Freeze
These are a simple way to keep a playful puppy busy, and they help a lot when you need quiet time.
Lick mats
Same concept, different format. Lickimats are great for slowing them down, especially when frozen. Another great option for enrichment.
Food and water bowls
These bowls were perfect for puppy meals and water. We keep them on a bone-shaped waterproof mat to help with spills and cleanup for busy pet owners.
Slow-feeder bowl
If your puppy inhales meals, a slow feeding bowl helps a lot. Coconut went from finishing in about 25 seconds to taking 8 to 12 minutes. It’s a small change that supports a healthy life, especially if your pup tends to gulp.
Dog food storage container
An airtight food storage container keeps your dog’s food fresh and makes feeding easier. We pair it with this scoop for the food, so portions stay consistent.
Walking and safety basics
Leash
We tried a few styles and kept coming back to this leash. We also love Big Ben Leash Co. for a small business option.
Collar
A basic, comfortable collar is perfect for everyday wear.
Harness
This harness worked well for us, but sizing runs small, so check the size chart closely.
Chews and treats
Bully sticks
Bully sticks were a staple for us. These are the bully sticks Coconut liked.
Bully stick holder
Please also buy a bully stick holder. Coconut once swallowed a whole bully stick, and it was a scary situation. A holder keeps the last chunk from becoming a choking risk, which matters for pet safety.
Training treats
We used treats for training, plus whatever small treats we had on hand.
Stuffable carrot dog toy
This carrot toy was a fun alternative to Kongs and worked great with stuffable treats. It’s an easy dog toy to keep in your rotation.
Puppy training essentials and puppy-proofing
Potty bells
We bell trained Coconut with these bells for potty training.
How we did it:
- Tap the bells with their nose or paw before every potty trip.
- Reward immediately after potty outside.
- Stay consistent, especially in the first few weeks.
A quick note on puppy pads. We bought 50, and Coconut never used them. She just shredded them!
Baby gates
We used gates to block off stairs and limit roaming. Gates help you create safe zones in different areas of your house, especially during potty training.
Bitter apple spray
This bitter apple spray helped stop chewing on furniture and random household items. We used it on table legs, cabinet corners, and anything tempting.
Other puppy essentials
Toys
Start with a variety, then buy more of what your puppy actually loves. We grabbed a big set of toys, plus extra squeaky tennis balls. Rotate toys weekly so your puppy stays interested without your living room becoming a toy store.
Dog poop bags
You’ll use poop bags constantly. Keep extras in the car, by the door, and in your jacket pocket. Seriously.
Poop bag holder
A poop bag holder clipped to the leash saves you from the “we’re out” moment.
Poop bucket
If you have a yard, a poop bucket makes cleanup easier and less gross.
Turf mat
If you’re in a city, a turf mat can be helpful for some puppies. Coconut used it occasionally, but not daily.
Shampoo
A gentle dog shampoo is a must, especially during the muddy paw phase.
Nail clippers
We used these nail clippers for quick trims between vet or groomer visits.
Deer antlers
We used deer antlers for teething, but check with your vet first. They can be too hard for young teeth, depending on the dog.
Brush and deshedding tool
We started with this brush, and for Goldens, the Furminator is worth it.
Lint rollers
If you have a shedding breed, stash lint rollers everywhere you actually get dressed.
Toy holder
A simple toy holder makes cleanup quick and keeps toys from taking over the house.
Pet insurance for puppies
We decided early that we wanted pet insurance. A lot can happen in the puppy stage, especially because puppies explore with their mouths and have zero sense of self-preservation.
We ended up choosing Lemonade pet insurance with a plan that covered accidents and illnesses, plus add-ons for things like vaccines. Coconut had multiple vet visits in the first nine weeks, including emergency trips, and we were genuinely relieved to have coverage.
Insurance is personal, and plans vary a lot. If you’re shopping, look at:
- what counts as an accident vs. an illness
- coverage caps
- deductible options
- what is excluded as “pre-existing”
- whether wellness add-ons are worth it for your situation
FAQs
WHAT ARE THE MOST ESSENTIAL PUPPY SUPPLIES FOR A NEW DOG HOME?
Start with a crate, a play pen or gated area, food and water bowls, dog food, training treats, a leash, a collar or harness, dog poop bags, a few toys, and a safe chew. Add a slow feeder if your puppy eats fast.
WHAT SIZE CRATE SHOULD I BUY FOR A PUPPY?
Buy a crate that will fit their adult size and use the divider to make it puppy-appropriate. Too much space early on can make potty training harder, especially in the puppy’s crate overnight.
HOW DO I CHOOSE THE RIGHT DOG BED?
Look for a bed that’s easy to clean and supportive, with bolsters if your puppy likes to curl up. If your puppy chews beds, start with something simpler and upgrade later.
HOW MANY TOYS SHOULD I BUY AT FIRST?
A small variety is enough. Start with a handful, then rotate. Once you see what your puppy loves, you can buy more of that style of dog toy.
ARE BULLY STICKS SAFE FOR PUPPIES?
Ask your vet, especially for young puppies and strong chewers. If you use them, use a bully stick holder to reduce the risk of swallowing the last chunk.
DO POTTY BELLS REALLY WORK?
They can. The key is consistency and only using the bells as part of going outside. Some dogs also learn to ring them for play, which Coconut definitely tried.
HOW DO I KEEP MY PUPPY SAFE IN DIFFERENT AREAS OF YOUR HOUSE?
Use gates and a play pen to limit access and prevent accidents. It helps with training and makes it easier to supervise, which supports pet safety.
DO I NEED PET INSURANCE RIGHT AWAY?
If you want insurance, it’s usually best to start early. Many companies consider conditions “pre-existing” once they’re documented by a vet, so waiting can limit what’s covered.
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Brit says
Does the plan cover her spay?
Kate says
Hi! I just found out today that we are getting a golden! What is the book you referenced that was a lifeline for you guys? Thanks!
Erin says
Hi Kate, yay congrats!! It is linked in the post: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1615648852?ie=UTF8&psc=1&linkCode=sl1&tag=erinliveswhol-20&linkId=8b9dd81eabf87e93ee1c84e2063db118&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl Good luck!!
Henry Killingsworth says
I thought you made a good point when you mentioned that a basic leash is a must-have for a puppy. I would think that it would be a good idea to get a long leash for your puppy. It seems like a longer leash would make it so that your puppy won’t have to pull when you are out walking. https://www.4cloversaussies.com/available-puppies-1.html
Erin says
Hi Henry, thank you so sharing!!
Sarah says
Definitely a long line (house line). A dog trainer I follow (Mcaan dogs) says you’re supposed to have puppy’s on a house line so that you can easily get the puppy under control if they are getting into trouble. As for walks, you’re not supposed to be walking young puppy’s because it’s not good for their developing joints and ligaments. You’re also not supposed to be taking a puppy on a walk before you leash train your dog so he/she doesn’t learn poor leash manners before they are trained as it will make the training harder.
Nancy says
I wish I’d seen this earlier but fortunately by some trial and error found out some of this eventually my British cream is turned one ☝️ n May. She is my first puppy and I did not grow up around dogs. We had cats when I was quite young. I have 2 now and that ⚧️ tip. Is a work in progress.
Erin says
Hi Nancy, happy first birthday to her!!
Carmina says
I loved it! Our pup is now five months old and we have done many of the things you write about, but you have also given me some great ideas. We have had many dogs, but it is our first Golden, what an education! We also have a big German Shepherd and they are great friends. Thank you!
Erin says
Hi Carmina, so happy they’re doing well! Thanks for sharing! 🙂
Kelli says
We are getting a new puppy and this is so so helpful! Thank you so much!
Erin says
Hi Kelli, so glad it helped! Congrats! 🙂
Katelyn says
Hi Erin! We are one week in with our golden puppy and this resource has been so helpful! Thank you so much for doing this! How did you pick Lemonade for the insurance? There seem to be so many and I don’t see huge differences.
Erin says
Thank you so much for putting this post together! I’ve had it bookmarked since you first posted it and I’m finally using it because bringing my puppy home next week! This was so helpful in sorting through what’s really needed right away. So appreciate you!! 🖤
Erin says
Hi Erin, yay congrats and good luck!!
Emma Baxter says
Hi Erin! Wondering what book you’re referring too at the beginning of this post. I’m bringing a little girl home in August and would love to have a read before hand ❤️
Erin says
Hi Emma, yes of course here it is: https://amzn.to/3x5a7du Good luck!!
Erin says
Do you have the recipe for the Kong mixture you referenced? I looked up premade treats, but they don’t have good reviews. thank you!
Erin says
Hi Erin, I just mix together about 1/2 cup yogurt, 1/4 cup pumpkin, and 1/4 cup pb!
Mariah says
Hi Erin! I absolutely loved this post! I’m working on getting a Golden this year and found this very helpful. Although I do have a question, what brand of food do you feed Coconut? I’ve been doing a ton of research, wanting to make sure I choose the right one and I was curious on what you recommend?
Erin says
Hi Mariah, we feed her Lifes Abundance food! Glad you found this helpful!!
Meaghan says
Hey Erin! We just found out we’re getting a little red Golden like Coco soon! Do you have cleaning products you recommend? I know we’ll be needing lots of that 🙂
Erin says
Hi Meaghan, ah so exciting!! We swear by our Dyson vacuum, a must with all of the shedding. Besides that, we use a Swifter wet and just keep a lot of towels lying around for rainy day madness!
Kaeleen says
Hi Erin!!
My fiancé and I are wanting to look into getting a golden retriever! I’m so glad I found this post! I wanted to get your opinion though, we live in an apartment and both work during the day so we’re trying to figure out the best way to manage having a puppy at the same time. Any advice??
Cheryl says
Great tips! Glad you mentioned insurance too. We didn’t use it a ton when our dog was younger but it sure paid off (literally!) when she tore her ACL last year. Not a cheap surgery, but we were thankful we didn’t worry about getting her the care she needed due to money.
Marlise Lombardo says
So helpful! I pick up my puppy tomorrow and didn’t have a few things you suggested and just ordered via Amazon. Thanks Erin! ❤️
Christina says
Wow. This list is AMAZING. I’m going to be a first-time dog owner within the next few months and I needed all these tips!! Thank you so much! And thanks Coco for testing all this stuff out, haha 🙂
Sarah says
YES!!! This was so helpful. Ordering the exact playpen and gate you have. Also, the bitter apple spray is such a good idea. I only wish this blog existed last week before the chew marks on my coffee table lol!!!
Thank you for taking the time to write this!
Amber says
Thank you so much I have been wanting all of your advice but didn’t want to keep asking! 🙂 Do you have any info. on when you started doing training classes with her? My new pup is 8 weeks old today and I want to start looking for training classes once she is fully vaccinated. Thank you Erin you’re the best!
Erin says
You are so welcome, Amber!! We started classes right after she was done her vaccines, so like 13 weeks!! We felt like it was the perfect time.
Victoria says
Hi Erin! I saw you mentioned that you took Coconut to OpBarks…did you do group training classes or private?? I have a 4 month old mini golden doodle, and have appreciated all of your advice so far!!
Erin says
Hi Victoria!
I did the puppy basics beginner group class! It was 5 weeks long (5 total classes) – hope that helps!
katie says
coconut is the cutest!! my family wants to get a golden doodle soon so i’ll definitely be referring back to this post 🙂
Kaitlin says
This was SO helpful! Bringing a golden home at the end of this month and some of the things you mentioned haven’t even crossed my mind. Thanks for writing this post!
Tom says
Love little Coconut! Good writing Erin!